Agra On Saturday, a unique case reached the family counseling center, where the gap of mistrust between the husband and wife had become so deep that the police had to ask for Bhagwat Geeta. Both took an oath with a hand on the Gita and decided to give their married life another chance. This incident became a topic of discussion not only on the local people but also on social media.
Deep gorge of mistrust in husband and wife
A counseling session was held on Saturday to resolve a couple’s dispute at the Family Counseling Center. The wife alleged that her husband had an illicit relationship with another woman, while the husband said that his wife had hidden jewelery worth eight lakh rupees. The debate between the two increased so much that it became difficult to find a solution.
The wife told her husband that if she swear that she had no connection with any other woman, she is ready to carry forward this relationship. The husband was also adamant about his allegations and was asking his wife to take oath that he had not hidden jewelry.
Bhagwat Gita becomes a means of resolving controversy
Seeing the increasing dispute between husband and wife, counselors and policemen found a unique way. The policemen immediately brought the Bhagwat Gita, which is considered a symbol of truth and justice in Hinduism. Both were asked to take an oath by placing their hands on the Gita.
The wife first placed her hand on the Gita and said that she had not stolen or hidden jewelry. After this, the husband also took an oath by placing his hand on the Gita that he had no connection with any other woman and he will not drink alcohol from further. Hearing this, the wife’s anger decreased somewhat, and she decided to give her husband another chance.
Such cases are coming to the counseling center daily
Such cases appear daily at the Family Counseling Center. Many times small misconceptions create such a big rift in the relationship that the relationship comes to break. According to counseling experts, trust between husband and wife is most important. When it starts staggering, the relationship comes to the verge of breaking up.
In such cases, most controversies are about suspicion. Many times, things like mobile phone chats, increasing conversation on social media or spending more time in the office become a cause of doubt in relationships. Similarly, the quarrel between husband and wife also increases with financial matters.
Agra police and counselors gave message
After this incident, the police and counselors gave the message that transparency and dialogue is most important in any relationship. There is any reason for doubt, it should be kept in front openly and should avoid accusing each other without concrete evidence.
Agra police said that many times small misconceptions in such cases eliminate relationships. Therefore, it is necessary to establish a proper communication before any serious decision.
Case went viral on social media
After this matter came to light, it also became a topic of discussion on social media. People gave different reactions about this. Some people said that it is wrong to use religious books like Gita in such cases, while some described it as a unique and positive solution.
Some users wrote in a funny manner that ‘from now on, it should be made mandatory to keep the Gita in every marriage, so that no one lies.’ At the same time, some described it as an example of the strength of family values and traditions in Indian society.
Opinions of experts: How to avoid such disputes?
It is very important to maintain confidence in relationships. According to psychologists and marriage counselors, if disputes between husband and wife are increasing, then these measures should be adopted:
- Talk openly: Instead of suppressing any problem, discuss it openly.
- Avoid misunderstandings: It can be dangerous to doubt your partner without strong evidence.
- Do Trust Building Activities: Spend time with each other and do confidence activities.
- Take family counseling: If any dispute is increasing continuously, seek the help of an expert.
- Decide the boundaries of social media: Spending more time on social media can also cause suspicion many times.
Importance of counseling in saving marriage
Many times small disputes between husband and wife lead to divorce. In such a situation, family counseling centers and counseling sessions play an important role. During counseling, not only the dialogue between the husband and wife is promoted, but the solution is also found by understanding their feelings.
What do counselor say?
According to the counselor of the Agra Family Counseling Center, “We see hundreds of similar cases everyday.” Most of the husband and wife quarrel over small things, but when they get a platform for negotiation, they are ready to resolve their issues. ”
Geeta’s oath saved marriage
This case is an example that when confidence in relationships breaks down, it needs to take serious steps to re -create it. The way the Agra Police and Family Counseling Center resolved the dispute is comfortable. After taking the oath of Geeta, the husband and wife gave each other a chance and decided to save their married life.
Such solutions can prevent relationships from breaking up and also send positive messages to society. The next time there is a problem in your relationship, first talk peacefully – you may be in your hand!